The Ultimate Relationship

The Ultimate Relationship

The Ultimate Relationship

The Ultimate Relationship

It seems that in the month of February, with Valentine’s Day getting more attention than other days, there is more focus on relationships. In some ways a relationship inventory. At times I’ve wondered if there is an ultimate relationship. There is no question that relationships stretch you, whether you want to be stretched or not. You experience a myriad of emotions that you would not have experienced without the relationship, ranging from fear, anger, and avoidance to fulfillment, confidence and passion.

You explore uncharted territory discovering new ways of saying and looking at things. You’re never totally prepared for what needs to be done or said, so quite often you avoid saying what’s on your mind. Sooner or later what you withhold from your partner is reflected in your attitudes and conduct, often leading to feelings of separation and alienation, which defeats the purpose of being in relationship.

Sharing your most intimate feeling is not the easiest thing to do because for so long we have been doing things by ourselves and have not had much practice. But when you do, it’s so liberating.

What makes relationships confusing and challenging is that we each bring different models and life experiences to the relationship. We’re often in different stages of our evolutionary cycle. What is important to us changes, as do our feelings and our life’s circumstances.

Each relationship has prepared me for the next. What I’ve come to realize is that the ultimate relationship is with myself. It’s taken me a while to get there, but whether I’m with someone or not, I’m always with myself.

Until you love yourself deeply and passionately, what you have to give to others will be limited.

If you want to have better relationships, then begin with having a better relationship with yourself.

Some of you know that I have been hosting the InspirePossibility Radio Show, in which each week I have conversations with cutting-edge thought leaders. Take a listen. This week my guest was John Gray, the author of the best-selling Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus.

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Enjoy this great adventure, this great mystery called life. There is no better time than now.

To dream -again. To dare -again.
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or for the first time.
To realize – this is living —

Walk in Freedom –Mark Susnow

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Journey On


Mark Susnow is an executive-life coach and thought-leader who inspires others to believe in themselves. He is passionate about life being an exciting journey of discovery. A former trial attorney for 25 years and musician, he integrates what it takes to be successful in the world with the inner wisdom unfolded to him through years of yoga and meditation.

If you are curious to find out how Mark can make a difference in your life both personally and professionally, you are invited to contact him at 415.453.5016 or email him at

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