Letters on Life #19
July 2004

What's New!

Living Your Vision: A one day experiential intensive designed to help you discover and live your vision. The next Living Your Vision workshop is October 23rd in Marin County.

The Website: I am excited about the new look of my website.It has a new visual and is more interactive and each pagehas an inspirational and motivational quote. A complete calendar of events is listed.

Menu of Services: The complete menu of services is available on the site.

Group Coaching is now available.. If you already have an existing group or want to participate in a new group, contact me for more information.

Self Assessment Test... Who is in charge of your life? Find out by taking this self assessment test.

Book Recommendation: Having a good time includes some humurous reading. Chris Moore's "the Lust Lizard of Melancholy Cove" is a spoof set in a fishing village. It is brilliant, hilarious and zany.

Coaching Tip...It is well documented that there is a direct relationship between how you start your day and the quality of your life.

Coaching... think of coaching both as a gift to yourself and an investment in your future.


Start Your Day With Intention

Most of us start the day like we're trying to catch a train. We wake up, grab a cup of coffee, look at the paper and listen to the news. We rush out of the house to make an appointment or deadline or to put the finishing touches on a project. From deadline to appointment it goes. When we leave work we have other responsibilities and obligations, and it doesn't end until we go to sleep, and for some it still doesn't end. We never do catch the train. We forgot one essential thing. We are the conductor and the train can't go anywhere without us.

What if you knew deep inside that the train was not going anywhere? What would it take to develop the wisdom that there was a better way? What changes could you implement that would make a difference? I was a busy trial lawyer for thirty years, always running to catch the train. I still remember racing to the court room full of coffee and stress until I realized I was the conductor of my life. That realization allowed me to make life altering changes thatcontinue to make my life more enjoyable, more successfuland more fulfilling.

It all starts with creating your perfect morning. This is your morning, no one else's. Consider waking up to music you love, rather than to the music or news on your alarm clock. Then before doing anything else take 10-15 minutes and sit silently thinking about all you're grateful for. Then start to wonder what the highlight of your day could be. From this new vantage point you might even skip that cup of coffee or that cigarette.

As you leave your house and begin the flow of your day you look at each experience and wonder if this is going to be the high point of your day knowing there is more to come.The concept of looking at the highlight of the day can be used in any situation even one that seems unpleasant. Looking for the highlight in this experience or this person can totally change your attitude. As the day unfolds, if you sense that things inside are heating up, consider taking a little break. You might even stretch for five minutes or walk around the block. As your day progresses the biggest difference is the knowledge that you can be busy and be relaxed.

I have found that starting the day this way increases my energy and efficiency throughout the day. When I leave my house centered and focused there is a much greater likelihood that I can maintain this balance throughout the day. There has been plenty of research by psychologists demonstrating the value of taking the time for morning meditation or creative silence. I have been doing this forover thirty years and very rarely feel overwhelmed. I laugh more and generally enjoy my day. Of course I have mychallenges and lose my focus periodically, but not for long. And before I go to sleep I again think about what was most special about this day.

The one thing I do know for certain is that there's a direct correlation between how I start my day and the quality of my life. Try a little experiment. For the next thirty days start your day on your own terms and discoverthe dramatic changes that are possible.

Giving and sharing is the highest expression of being on the journey of life. Feel free to give and share this letter with the friends in your circle and let them know about the advantages of being on the journey. Part of my journey has been listening and giving and sharing my insights with other people around the world. You help make this possible by sharing your insights with me and others.Thank you for your referrals and for sharing this newsletter with your friends. Your suggestions and comments are always welcome and contribute to who I am.


mark@inspirepossibility.com
(415) 453-5016

Mark Susnow has a unique background… A former trial attorney for 30 years and musician, he integrates what it takes to be successful in the world with the inner wisdom unfolded to him through years of yoga and meditation. His articles reflect this journey in an inspirational and motivational way..415-453.5016..To find out more about Mark and his services, be sure to visit his website .www.inspirepossibility.com. Here is what one of his clients had to say.

"My name is Don McLaughlin. As someone who had done lots of personal growth work with individuals like Deepak Chopra and Tony Robbins, I was a bit reserved about whether working with Mark would add anything to my life. Now,
nearly one year after first meeting Mark, I can say with 100% conviction that my work with Mark has been hands-down the most powerful personal growth work that I have done. Through Mark's ongoing support, guidance and wisdom, I picked up my family and left my law firm to pursue a job that I've dreamt about my entire life. And now, quite literally, I am living a dream come true and I simply would not be where I am today without Mark's coaching. While there remain challenges even with this new life, I am confident that the wisdom and techniques that I learned with Mark give me confidence that I can and will continue to make my dreams a reality and, most importantly, enjoy the journey on the way there."


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